Monday, August 15, 2005
Thursday, August 11, 2005
Thursday, August 04, 2005
It's hard for me to say it will be one year on August 11th since Tony's passing. Time does not lessen pain, it only makes me realize the inevitability of distance between us. I am scared of us growing apart as time moves forward. I see myself getting older, and Tony, eternally his young self. I always imagined us growing old together. Tony's passing reminds me of how fragile life is, how unexpected, how potentially beautiful, and how unfair.
We will be getting together with friends and family at a Thai Temple near Los Angeles on Thursday morning, August 11th to remember Tony and give him food, light, and things he needs wherever he is. You can get in touch with me or Tom to get more details. My email is tvadakan@gmail. com.
If you can't make it, just think of him and do something wonderful for him... something you know he would love. It will be a year and It will be great for us to get together and think of him collectively. Anniversaries are usually happy reminders, but, I wish Tony was with us here.